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Based on my classmates' experiences, it seems like this is the biggest issue. I have heard similar things from friends currently in medicine. It's just hard trying to explain that to some people who think we should wait until M4 etc, when some factors of our decision making is also to their benefit. There's actually more than one person I can think of who entered into medical school in a relationship, but didn't get married until after graduation, and it occasionally put strains Married but looking student for med the relationship.
In a lot of cases, the spouse who sacrificed to get the other through training Married but looking student for med get nothing.
They are entitled to half of the net family property accumulated during the marriage, but that could be nothing. They wouldn't get spousal support because they had not been supported by the medical student before the split. I would want to have a marriage contract or cohabitation agreement if I were in this situation. If I were the medical student, I would would want my spouse to have the peace of mind that things would be fair Married but looking student for med the worst happened.
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If I were the supporting spouse, damn right I would be getting an agreement! I really hope I never get fof, but at least I can make sure that I don't get screwed over if it happened.
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There are going to be legal ramifications whether you get married or not. You will have to plan for them. If you get married now and it turns out that your spouse should not have signed on to this whole doctor thing, the emotional consequence is that this breakup is going to be more difficult than if you were just living together.
There is also a risk that one or Married but looking student for med of you might feel stuck because you are married and stay in an unhappy relationship that otherwise would have ended. If you delay marriage for medical school, there is a risk that the relationship will suffer.
Maybe it will be more likely to end because one or both of you will feel like the other is not committed, and therefore put less work into the relationship because of it, or be more likely butt bail when the going gets tough.
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Maybe he will feel unhappy that he is supporting you emotionally and financially through this tough time without having formalized your commitment. A lawyer is not better suited than anyone else at helping you decide which of these paths is less risky.
It's a question that you need really need to find within yourself, and also with talking to your significant other. It also doesn't hurt to listen to your well meaning friends and family.
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You are well spoken, thank you Married but looking student for med definitely the family friend did not wholly frame it in that sense, but the thoughts were expressed as such. The tough part of that, which we would not mind at all, is that planning a wedding and inviting people 6 months before is pretty impossible in our situation.
I feel like that sort of half-measure would amplify the concerns etc. The alternative would be to Horny granny dating services Weston Idaho it during the very beginning of M3, which would be July, and only 1 month into rotations, which could work too.
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Personally, there's a lot of other things I'd rather spend the money on. What's the reason you have to get married if you're already living together? Is it because you need to sign a paper to feel committed so that you can never end the relationship because it's too much paperwork?
Is it Married but looking student for med you want to show your family and friends how committed you are? Is it for tax or legal reasons?
studebt You know your relationship better than your relatives, so if you feel like it's the right time, go for it! If said relatives are paying for it, just wait.
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We've been through hell and back over the last nine years and we remain as committed as looikng.