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After years of hearing lesbian writers' anecdotes about being denied funding, New York-based writer and activist Sarah Schulman studied the seven major supporters of independent fiction writing in this country. She looked at who was funded between and now. The report is called "Institutional Exclusion of Lesbian Literature from Foundation Support," and here's some of what she found: In the current climate lesbians who are closeted personally and in their creative work are the most likely to receive funding.

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Death due to AIDS, once it was no longer perceived of as a "queer" subject, became something America was willing to think about.

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